Well, there may be no need for the background check. My W called me today to pick up son on my off day. She said she wasn't feeling well. I picked him up and we came back to my house and started playing and shortly after W called me.

She was crying and asked if we could talk....... I went into the other room and she said that I was right about everything. I asked what she was talking about, and she proceeded to tell me her "boyfriend" just dumped her. They went to the zoo today with our son and he actually told her that he didn't like our son and wasn't ready to deal with this.

I'll be honest, I was smiling ear to ear. I told her that she needs to be careful going forward when she introduces someone to our son. She asked me if I could come over and hang out because she was feeling down. I told her I'd come over with son and help put him to bed but then I would need to leave.

I got there and played with son and talked to mother in law. Put son to bed and I left. She looked shocked that I wasn't going to stay and comfort her but I'm not that guy anymore and I can't forget what she put me through. Anyway, we'll see how long she can be single. I'm convinced she can't be alone.....


M: 36
W: 29
S: 2.5
EA: 2/2010 OM1
D Bomb: 3/2010
PA: 6/2010 OM2
W moved out 8/2010
Loc: DE, USA