My W and I are not divorced. So it's not "official child support". I'm required by the Army to send $1100. If we were divorced, I'd be required to send $1300. I'm sending $1600 to be above reproach, so no one can never say that I didn't support my children even if we are separated.
My W lives with her folks and hasn't found a job yet. I really try to do my part so the kids don't suffer.But I really hinted to my W that she needs to budget the money or else she will never have enough by the end of each month. I cannot send any more money. I think she knows it by now.
Thanks for the input Dsh.
JR
Me:44 WAW:43 Children S13,S11,S7 Married 17 yrs W left JUN 08 W filed JAN 09 D proceedings dismissed AUG 09 W refiles 1 MAR 11