Dsh,

My W and I are not divorced. So it's not "official child support". I'm required by the Army to send $1100. If we were divorced, I'd be required to send $1300. I'm sending $1600 to be above reproach, so no one can never say that I didn't support my children even if we are separated.

My W lives with her folks and hasn't found a job yet. I really try to do my part so the kids don't suffer.But I really hinted to my W that she needs to budget the money or else she will never have enough by the end of each month. I cannot send any more money. I think she knows it by now.

Thanks for the input Dsh.

JR


Me:44
WAW:43
Children S13,S11,S7
Married 17 yrs
W left JUN 08
W filed JAN 09
D proceedings dismissed AUG 09
W refiles 1 MAR 11