Bustorama-Thread 1

[bustorama]

With my W, lately, hooters are rarely out of sight, out of mind, so I understand the confusion.

Yeah, at earlier points in our separation, there was less contact between us. The increased contact really started with me caregiving for her after the surgery and then has continued in the last couple of weeks with end of summer/start of school/birthday party/other family-related activities. I do think that she has seen changes in me and GAL/180's from the contact (leading to her commenting about how much happier I seemed and she was sorry it had taken her moving out for it to happen). I still never initiate calls, texts or emails to her (unless she starts them), so it's weird there can be so much contact.

I actually wouldn't mind more time for me to work on some of my GAL activities and for her to reflect on our failed M and, perhaps, to miss me. I have had a >50% responsibility for the kiddos the last month because of her surgery recovery and am looking forward to getting back to a more balanced situation. There's also some stuff I need to get done with the house, and some GAL to be caught up on.