LOL, when you said cupcakes, I thought you were talking about hooters... You can see that I'm seriously deprived!
Is your wife incapable of dialing a phone? I don't think that was pursuing, since she asked you to call the surgeon, but it's probably because she's still expecting you to make decisions for her. I don't think there's anything wrong with you giving your medical opinion though.
It's weird to try and do NC etc when you have kids that you both participate in raising. The schedule that my W and I had earlier figured out (before this wave of MC) had us seeing each other almost everyday. While that would be good for us in terms of both seeing the girls a lot, I wonder how healthy it would be. At least it would give her lots of opportunities to see your GAL/180s etc.
I don't think that was pursuing, since she asked you to call the surgeon, but it's probably because she's still expecting you to make decisions for her. I don't think there's anything wrong with you giving your medical opinion though.
