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Answer this for me, if anyone can. Why did he email the same msg. yesterday three times within 13 minutes? Did he think I was sitting panting by the computer and poised to respond? Or is he just an idiot?

JMO Pun, but it sounds as though someone was trying to convince themselves or were being pressured by another party to try and 'take back' what was put out there.

Sweetie you have the right idea about stepping back now. You got the war started. Time to step way back and let the battle between H and ow wage. I'd bet dollars to donuts that ow is so insecure right now and is probably spewing hateful things about you to H. He must feel tremendous pressure from her. If you stay back eventually H will get tired of it and probably start to defend you. Little girls like her don't play nice when they don't get what they want.

This is all conjecture of course, but them trying to back peddle on what your H emailed to you smacks of ow trying to putty up some major cracks! It may take a while but I can't see the dam holding forever.