She has cheated on him several times and is most likely still cheating on him and you are suggesting he competes for her affection.
One of the main principles of DB is to STOP doing what doesnt work. Why continue playing this game? Same thinking?? Same results??? = Insanity!! which is pretty much what is happening.
Why the H3ll!! would he want to compete with OM's affection? Perfect recipe for sacrificing your identity and destroying any left over self-respect or ego.
What he needs to do is send her a$$ packing until she grows up, but that will never happen because they are both too co-dependent on eachother for attention and other crap.
I have told you this how many times?? YOU are the only one that can CHOOSE to BREAK this CYCLE.
Why would you want to be with someone that doesnt want to be with you. Period. YOU can never CONVINCE anyone to be YOU through words has to be through ACTIONS. PERIOD.
Once again. What happened to the "Hold on to your NUTS" attitude that you had found. Fighting for scraps is definitely not in that book.
Good Luck. PMA
Damn. I love reading back through my thread and getting these nuggets again. I should print this whole thing out force myself to read it everyday.
----"Et tu, Brute?"---- me:28 W:24 S4 T:6 M:4 EA Exposed: 5/21/10 Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day) NC w/ OM: 7/10/10 W moved out 8/21/10 http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch
