Punkin, Do not sell yourself short. (I know you're tiny but that's beside the point) I love reading your pearls of wisdom! I also adore your sense of humor!!! Some of your stuff just makes me laugh out loud right from the belly, and I love to laugh. It truly is the best medicine.
You do make me feel better in more ways than one, sista from another mother!
BeingMe, Thank you for posting your experiences. You've really been through it and come out the other side a success!!!
We learn so much from our friends who have traveled this path before us and care enough to continue to post to help see others through.
I agree about the affair partners being selfish and clingy. I wondered how ow viewed my H as he spends little time with our two younger children. I thought that she being a mother of four herself would take a dim view of that. Come to find out she gives H a hard time about the time he spends with them. I do find this incredibly sad, not just for our girls, but for H, too.