What are your specific goals for accomplishing "letting it go"? It is so vague, helps to be really specific so when you feel like you are going to do something dumb, you have it all written in front of you. I've emailed myself my goals at work so I can read them every day. Not always smart about following them, but they do help me try and stay on track.
Dagny
Me 48, H49, M24, S14, S11 DB #1 4/2002-8/2003 Bomb #2 August 2010 & he moved out Living with OW
