She has intitiated a few hugs, but no ILY or kisses. My W has laready filed, hell she has already bought a washer and dryer for her place now. 3 days ago she lights me up, I dont engage in it, I walk away, and today she is friendly.
In my case I feel my W is just wanting us to get along to be better parents and friends. Which I am ok with, but at the same time I am pretty dark, which seems to get her to reach out a bit more. I am not trying to read in to too much, but we can be friendly and good parents without talking and seeing each other frequently. She occupies her time with kids and work, Im sure it helps her stay focused on her, while at times when she calls and texts she still reaches out a bit.
Even if I got more mixed signals from her, she knows it will just confuse the situation even more, she still has feelings for me and has stated she will not let herself become vulnerable to me(when we were still in the same house) which tells me she is pretty set in her ways, whether she has second thoughts or not she will follow through with the D. Very bull headed and as Pin and I have discussed in the past, she almost acts like she is triyng to prove to me herself and everyone else that she can do this on her own.
