Thank you all for responding. Not looking for sympathy. Just thought on a site with cheetees trying to save their marriage with a cheater that some hard good advice could be given to a cheater. Thanks Dudess. Lotus thank you for the website I will check it out.
Dudess, I admitted because my W kept asking. I felt if we were going to move on and forward I had to own up. When I did she told me to leave. Any time I have tried to have a heart to heart talk my wife shuts me down. Says it doesn't matter. She's moved on that this was the straw that broke the camels back, I was a horrible husband. So I guess my main question is do I keep trying? My thought is with her mind so set, I should just leave it alone. If we are to ever attempt reconciliation it will have to be initiated by her? Do I pur it all out in a letter?
A stone cold irony...the man who showed up at my door has taken his wife back and are going to counseling to save their marriage!
