I'm so sorry that a weekend that started with such promise crashed and burned. It seems to be the way for most of us LBS's. You said what needed to be said, whether or not it was pleasant to hear. CYA at all times. He's left you to do the hard work and make the hard decisions, so do them with your own best interest in mind.
Do you have time to take a little drive before going to your FIL's- all alone. That usually helps me calm down. If not, there is always Xanax.
