You have been a source of strength for me and many others since you showed back up on these boards, and I am very, very grateful. I know I am being given quality advice. Go dark, back away, let it be. I have to fight the instinct to FIGHT. Get into a war of words with her that would in the long run serve no purpose and only make him take her side. There is also the little imp inside that wants to make another overture to H.
But, enough is enough. I planted the seed, it took root, and I garnered a response. And while it may not have been the response I would have dreamed of . . . . Oh baby, oh honey, oh sweetie, I've been such a jerk and want to come home so bad . . . It wasn't a negative response, either.
I bow to your wisdom and back away from the computer where H is concerned.
Answer this for me, if anyone can. Why did he email the same msg. yesterday three times within 13 minutes? Did he think I was sitting panting by the computer and poised to respond? Or is he just an idiot?
