Hi Pinhead,

You are probably right.I know some of the women on these posts pull out the heavy sx artillery in order to "soften" their WAH's. My H is a tough person who does not wear his emotions on his sleeves, so this approach is harder for me. For weeks H wouldn't get anywhere near me, walked a wide path. Now we stand closer together, accidently brush each others arm , etc and he doesn't cringe.

I was a bit surprised by H's comment " I admit I miss your touch". That sounds more emotional than sexual doesn't it?

I know, it all could be H's primal male desire and I just happened to be on hand so to speak. But as others have said on these posts my H is a man first, an engineer second, so I decided to give sx contact a try.

Thanks for your wisdom.I see from your posts you seem to be feeling better about things.I am happy for you. Hang in~


SQ