In other words as Gucci and RobX points out too. If you become the WAW yourself and go on with no regret that is your best shot at reconcilliation.

M 36
W 29
Together 2 1/2 years married 14 months
Daughter 15 months
Bomb 4/22/10
Separated since 4/25/10
OM 6/10/10
Hopeful, but moving on