OW will tire quickly if she is not the center of the universe...that is the type that they are...they feel empowered to know a man is leaving everything dear to him for HER...so if he looks back, shows interest in his family at all...well, yeah! she is going to feel very insecure and start behaving desperately...
Lin, I have noticed this in my sitch as well. ow can't stand when H spends time or money on the kids. This was confirmed in text messages my D read on her Dad's phone.
Thank you for coming back and sharing your wisdom and experiences with us as we navigate the MLC waters. Your insights have been invaluable!