Where does the WAW go

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Personal question? Like we don't put it all out there already. But to answer you, yes we are on 2 different planets when it comes to sex. So yes the 'more' normally is leading up to sex...not always but normally.

Didn't want to assume you would discuss this. My H and I went through years like that, esp. after our children were born. I was just TIRED! We struggled. Hormones and general health can be contributors to this, as well.

I get that my growth is threatening to everyone right now. I'm just trying not to fall victim to my past behaviors. I always stop what I'm into to keep the peace.

Co-dependent much? Have you read up on co-dependency? If not, do so, friend.

So I always end up sacrificing me.

Doodi ~ how can I help you STOP doing this? It's wrong. And sister, your children are watching this. What would you tell your daughter or son if they were in your shoes? Self-sacrificing is wrong and not an answer. Look at the misery around you for it.

It doesn't help that I think my kids are picking up on my vibe and no matter what I can't hide that, they just read it.

100% guarantee this.

As for my me time...this is it. I'm setting myself up for a huge argument if/when he finds out about this. To me, it's venting and guidance...2 very important things I need right now.

Delete your history after you visit this site.

Thanks everyone for you kindness and compassion. It means alot.

I've been where you are in many ways. Helping means a lot to me

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