PS - note for Time: All day yesterday, if I'd feel a negative thought about H or sitch creep in, I just shoved it out of the way and thought instead about all the positive things I can do with my future; and made plans for something enjoyable I can do this week. It was very effective! It's much harder to dwell on the negative when you've got something fun and positive that you're planning for the future. Thanks again.
Yes! Now, if the man in him ever says, "you know, I'd love to come with you, if I could," that's a whole 'nother thang! But only if you want him to.
Peace,
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
