My son called me and invited me for dinner tonight. He had dinner with my wife last pm and he said she told him she was moving next weekend. I know I have to move forward and detach but it is easier said then done. I feel very depressed and the bad thing is I have to let my wife work this out herself and I need to learn about me. I am learning that I have to control me and I hope things will fall in place. I am sure the move out day will be tough and it probably would be best for me to not be there when it happens. Bobby O