I agree with Ris on this one. I don't think him running in and then running out will help at all. Perhaps set a boundary, something like "I want you to be in the kids lives, I want you to see them, however we need to discuss our schedules and set days and times when you will really be able to see them and spend time." I'm not sure if that's how the wording should go, I'm not very good at boundaries yet either.
But I understand how you feel. My H was in my hometown visiting his family, he was here for 15 days, literally 10 minutes from where me and our D live. He saw her 3 times. He did keep her for two nights right before he left, but I'm in the dark as to how much time he actually spent with her during those two nights/days.
Me: 24 H: 26 2 SS: 7 & 5; D: 3 H filed D papers: 8/2/10 OW discovered: 08/10 D papers counter-filed: 10/2/10 There is no method to my madness
