I don't think that him running in for 2 minutes and back out would be good for the kids at all!

In my opinion you should set a boundary there - either he comes and spends a proper amount of time with them or doesn't see them at all. What is good for them should be a paramount - if he "doesn't have time", well tough, he needs to make it.

I hope someone here will come and help you word it as a boundary, not an ultimatum, I'm not good at that stuff yet!


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