I have a question? My husband has not seen the kids for 2 weeks. This week alone my 7 year old son has cried himself to sleep twice. After family prayer my 6 year daughter waits until the other kids are sleep. Then she comes and says "Mommy can we pray again for daddy". Then just me and her say a prayer for my husband. My husband called today and said "I am coming by to see the kids. I don't have time to stay so I am going to run in and give them a hug and leave". I told him I would call him when I get home from church. I feel like my kids seeing him for 2 minutes and then he leaves again for God knows how long will harm them. I want to tell him that when he has time to really spend with the kids then come over. When he does that I will be leaving so I won't have to be around him. The kicker is my husband lives like 3 minutes away from us. He lives so close that he can walk to my house if he wants to. He does not even call and talk to the kids or ask how they are doing. What are your thoughts on this?


Me (32) H (36)
Together (12 years)
Married (3 years)
Children (4 ages 11,9,7,6)
Bomb dropped (November 09)
Seperated (January 29, 2010)