Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails, on 7/10/2010
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She came over that evening and thanked me for the flowers and said she doesn’t know if she wants to come back and doesn’t know when she will be able to give me an answer. I don’t know if she has stopped the EA . . .
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Unless you failed to update us, THAT is where your wife left it with you regarding your affair. Made absolutely NO COMMITMENT to your marriage, or to end the affair. And you respond with, this time . . .
Talking, laughing and touching.
You're just not getting it. Until your wife agrees to end her infidelity, you need to pull AWAY from her, and lay out your personal boundaries. She's CAKE-EATING, big-time, and you are enabling her.