Not even so much "spineless" as just an incredible lack of foresight and planning, Nav. People on here PRAY for the day when their wayward spouses want to move back in, and you've been at this, HOW long now? And you were prepared with NOTHING on how to respond to her when she asked?
Good lord, at least a "I'm not sure how I feel about that right now -- I'll have to get back to you," and then come post on here and ask for advice???
I'm speechless. Good luck enforcing ANY sort of boundaries now -- you let the camel back into the tent, with no rules or boundaries in place.
