She replied and said her mom said she was willing to go if that was the only way she could see her son and grandson. SIL said that she was too bitter to go.
She said her mom asked "what would you do if it was your son?"
And I said if it was S, I would tell him that I love him but refused to visit him with the whore. That he could see me separately and bring S. But that I would not condone his selfish destructive choice. I said it would be a short term sacrifice for a long term gain.
Then I said I would always make sure she and her mom would be able to see S, if they couldn't see him.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004