My memeory is Swiss Cheese so forgive me if these questions are remedial or mt recal of your sitch is wrong.
She moved OUT willingly and now wants to come back. Have you asked her WHY she is asking to come back? What are her intentions? Cheap rent? Or work on the M? What do YOU want? If ahe's trying to cut costs and continue to live like she's single, you have to stop this, don't you think?
Your kids don't even want her back in the house? Ask them why other than the "command post"?
Is the OM gone? Is there a transparency plan? Has she sent a "no contact" letter?
Originally Posted By: Navajo
it is as if she has decided to insert herself back into the family whether we want it or not.
You have to confront her on this. Is she actually saying and acting like she is "part of the family"?
Sorry,Nav if I'm off base but this sounds all wrong dude.
