Not sure where to start, or end. WAW?

[TimeHeals]

Asking how her day went is pursuing.

If she tells you how her day went, and you listen, that is not pursuing.

I think you need to be sensitive to how it can be viewed by somebody who is thinking of leaving a relationship.

Why is he asking what I am doing all the time?

Stop waiting for her to give you clues how to act.

Get a lawyer, make contingency plans for you and your kids, do stuff to improve John so John feels good about John.

I just started reading "The Time Paradox" by Phillip Zimbardo. Seems pretty good so far. I have to take my dogs on their 2 mile walk this morning (late for that). I need to hire some painters this week to paint my outside trim and shutters, and I need to get some wood dough and shell white paint to repair dog-induced dammage to some moldings in my house. Work is picking up.

I am 70% toward my goal weight, and I am getting stronger because I work out most days. Thinking about taking a day off for "United Way Day of Caring" to go feed homeless people (plus my company likes it when you do volunteer work representing the company). Dogs need a bath, and then more frontline.

I saw this group on meetup that meets every Wednessday at a different restaurant, and that sounds kind of cool. Might try that.

On and on and on.