Well, that being the case, I think this is a "cheeseless tunnel" at least for now.
I do have to keep "pursuing the pink".lol. This may get me no where, but I have never been a "pursuer" and it may be part of the problem.
Course, when I am baraged with curses when I do pursue, that may be why I am deterred!!lol.
Any other "exes" out there in the world? My sis-in-law is now married to an old friend of my H's. She married an alcoholic and left him after 2 years. Then she was alone raising her son for 14-15 years. This guy's W decided to have an affair while he was away in Afganistan serving our country. He left her and casually asked my H one day how his sister was doing. My H told him that she was D'd, never dated, and was raising her S. He showed up a couple of weeks later, they sat and talked, and in like 2 weeks they were engaged.
I hope she is happy--I haven't spoken to her in 8 months. I know this sitch has her really down. She is the one that helped me SO much during the last bomb. Now it's my other sis-in-law's turn to help. Guess I am taking turns.
So anyway, that is a "happily ever after" story about rekindling old flames. She was completely dateless for years, too. I know the guy she has really was impressed with that.