Not sure where to start, or end. WAW?

[john28]

Well, this sh*t just gets better and better. It's like I'm living on a daytime soap opera.

Last night after I found out she went and visited a L, I was steaming. I called her and asked her about plans tomorrow for pickup/droppoff, and in a very serious tone I asked her, "I will only ask this once. Have you visited with a lawyer?"

She said, "No."

Big f*cking liar.

She then turned into some kind of monster on the phone, saying stuff like, "You're trying to control someone who doesn't want to be with you even after they LEAVE you and I DON'T WANT TO BE WITH YOU, you're manipulative and controlling. Why don't you talk about your insecurities with MC next Tuesday you have an appointment. Oh and I made a mediation appointment with a lawyer on Wednesday at 3:45pm. So if you've got an issue, go get a tissue... oh ahah I rhymed. I'm going to hang up now, you need anything else?"

Uhhh. That's not mediation. That's a lawyer. Not a mediator. She has NO idea what the hell she is doing.

That was just cruel. Really mean. She's really started to rear the ugly head lately, and this is not who she is. Really, it's not. I can't tell if she had been drinking (she rarely drinks) but I think so. That's the only time she gets like that.


ANYWAYS... I got a call back at 6:00am this morning from her. What the...

W: "Hey... sorry to call so early, but, umm, I'm in the hospital."
M: "WHAT??!?! What is going on!!!"
W: "I have kidney stones. They already ran the test and I have them."
M: "Well, can I do anything?"
W: "I don't know."

Eventually, I drove to the hospital and picked her up from the Emergency Room. Got her and went to pharmacy. Sneeked a peek at her phone while getting Rx filled - nothing suspicious at all which confirms what she's said and I know. So far, no OM. She wouldn't be hiding crap on her phone with her out of the house.

So, she's here back at my house in our bed asleep (which I haven't slept in since she left). This sh*t just keeps getting better.

I know you all may think that I just got manipulated again by getting her from the hospital, but good God, am I supposed to cut her off when she's in a medical emergency? That seems just plain wrong. I'm just going to let her stay until she's somewhat able to drive to her house, then send her packing.

For her, I just think the kidney stones are karma.