Want to make it clear that I am trying to get past the current 'hostilities' with WH.
I know he is being 'nice' to me only because it's via me that he gets information about bub.
I suspect if bub didn't exist I would never hear from him, only to tie up financials.
I realised the other day I drew up a list of things which made WH's situation look great. But the flip side to all those positives are this:
+ WH has no money, no job. + WH is presumably living in a crammed studio with OW in a really boring part of town (outside the city walls) + WH's relationship with almost everyone must be on shakey ground since our friends and family are obviously very upset by what he has done + he is 17,000 kms away from his newborn baby.
NOT a pretty picture.
Time to shine the light back... but make changes for ME, and my probable future life without him, and not for WH.
