Baby born, separated, WH moving overseas for OW

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NM, thanks for clarifying that. When I used to criticise the A, WH would say "what's done is done", and I would say "yeah, so why do you KEEP ON DOING IT?". He didn't like that.

Anyway, enough talk of the past.
Babydoll you are right, blaming WH is not helpful to the DB process.

I have an opportunity to make a fresh start in my communications with WH. Distance is going to make it easier for me to control my feelings and start using my brain a bit more.

I'll be replying to WH tomorrow. Why tomorrow? Because I want to be able to say that "tomorrow bub and I are taking a plane up north for a holiday". I know it seems desperate, but it's an opp to make him curious. I'll keep it brief. Reply to his Q's about bub's health, and I'll use the opportunity to enforce the boundary where I ask him to refrain sending me the letters for bub.