H all, after telling john28 all i could I decided to post myself, Not much new to report, will be getting a lease on a new place this weekend, moving next weekend before our first hearing.

W's dad is in town, the "enabler" who helped her with the separation, D and L financially, I have not contacted her nor has she, I went to a party with some friends to watch the UFC tonight. It was fun I finally got home after stopping at a few bars on the way home.

I eep hearing the oddest things, as I was at the party, I overheard a woman say her and her husband were married by a justice of the peace then had a wedding with friends and family? same as me and the W. I overhear little things that remind me of our situation, not where we are now but what we have done.

told the W today via text that I would like to take kids to church tomorrow, W responded with a sarcastic remark that she has not forgotten about church and they will be there tomorrow, I said sounds good. I will not ask her which service whe will go to, just the one we normally went to, and be happy, I want to see my kids. that is about it. My kids are my focus now and myself.