As far as the L's I as well as my post said, I was blindsided with D papers, I had no idea it was that far along. as far as Lotus disagress with this, I think Retro is a bad Idea, from what I have read its for 2 people working on the M, not someone who is talking to a L for advice.
I think my W filed and talked to a L, and the L according to her "side" of this is probably pushing her to D. I cant do anything about it, I right now I wont. I will not contest the D, I will tell the judge this is what "she " wants I will not try to stop it. I will tell my side to tjhe judge and let the judge decide.
I know how the court works, judges know how L's work, unless there is a reason for the judge to protect the kids, he or she will se through the BS, lawyers always play the victim card, it is what it is, but if you dont fight it, concentrate on the kids, not money the judge will respect you, its a given.
