Sorry to be so blunt...a 21 yr old, really? what a cliche! How is toying with the emotions of a young, impressionable girl going to help you get your W back?
Also, quit funding her affair. She's only telling you just enough of what you want to hear to keep your money coming in while she bangs OM.
Ok, again, sorry to be so blunt, but really...
I don't regret the R w/ S (21yo). We both came out of it better than we went in and I have a valuable friend.
I will quit funding her. I will pay for stuff for the kids, but that's all.
Thanks.
~Mark
Me: 38 W: 34 Together: 9yrs 1st M: may '03 1st D: april '08 1st bomb: june '08 remarried: oct '08 2nd bomb: aug '09 --(W asked for D one week into 3 mo. trial separation which was meant to save our M)
