The party was great, though DD14 (yeesh) had some drama. W and I were good throughout. And lots of 180s on my end. I was social, engaged, helpful and a sane person. I had to hear a bit about OM and the special day they're planning for tomorrow (gag). No heavy conversation, just pleasant and I felt like I was doing it right for the first time. Too bad it took so long to get to this place...

~Mark

Me: 38
W: 34
Together: 9yrs
1st M: may '03
1st D: april '08
1st bomb: june '08
remarried: oct '08
2nd bomb: aug '09 --(W asked for D one week into 3 mo. trial separation which was meant to save our M)