So I moved out of the house today. Actually, I am staying here one more night,sleeping in her bed, but all my stuff is out. W is out of town with the kids until about 7pm tomorrow. Lots of work to do still at the new house. Old house is a mess with everything from under the bed, dresser,etc now coming to light.
I've got to do some grocery shopping for the new house tomorrow. There is almost no food at home. W still hasn't receivedher check from the state, but did get paid friday, so she does have some money. I was debating if I should get food for her and the kids and have the refrigerator stocked, at least sort of, when they get home. It would be a nice goodwill gesture, but part of me says not to do it and to continue to let her struggle.
What does everyone here think? I always try to be nice and I always do the wrong thing. I think I have been too nice through this whole thing. I am coming to realize that this has been planned for a while and she knew EXACTLY what she was doing all along. I think I should be madder about this and maybe I should punish her however I can for the actions she has taken against me.
Sometimes this situation just makes me feel completely sick, but most of the time I am doing pretty well. My kids are and will be with me. I have a great job that I need to protect and eventually this will all be over for me. The future's so bright, I gotta wear shades!
What do you guys think I should do next and what should I expect from W? My Mom expects no contrition and no attempt at reconciliation from W because she is too stubborn. And she is.
Please give me some opinions and feedback. I need a hand right now to keep me from breaking down again!
