I mean even when they venture forward in approach behavior, it's almost always followed by a withdrawal of sorts. CDBear or someone on another thread puts it as the analogy of a scared squirrel approaching to eat out of your hand -- theyll venture forward, scamper back, venture forward to test, scamper back. Coach uses the cat analogy. In both cases, if you reciprocate the approach behavior, you scare them back to square 0.


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T-Since-12/2001
Married-9/2004
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