Its been a week since my husband told me he loved me but is no longer attracted to me "in that way" and he didn't think he would be able to get it back. I know he has some depression about other things as well. I begged for 3 days for him to stay and he said he needed time. We still slept in the same bed but it pained me to listen to him sleep and think about the future without him. I finally stopped begging and am giving him time to sort throughh his feelings.

Today, I went on doing my own thing (which we've been doing for a long time) but he was texting me today and letting me know where he's at and where he's going. He even said "bye" which he never does. I felt a glimmer of hope..am I wrong to think that he's somehow reaching out to me?

Then when I got home, he seemed upset, withdrawn as usual and went to bed with a sick stomach. This rollercoaster is killing me.

Any clue into the letting me know where he's at business?


Me 40
H 42
S 16
D 15
Together for 23 years
Married 18
Blow up 8/21/10
DBomb-but hiding for the kids sake? 8/25/10