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[ericmsant2]

Bobby….Bobby…Bobby….

Thank you to all who have posted comments to me.

Your welcome…..but please….if you want to thank me then listen and act! In my book actions speak louder than words. I will tell what I mean by actions in a sec.

My wife is moving next week and there is nothing I can or will do other than to take care of me and my children.

Nothing….did you just say NOTHING? I mean the nerve of her. To think that she will not let YOU control HER actions while she is in HER crisis. The nerve of HER! Bobby, as hard as this is to understand…if all you take from this…if anything that me or anyone ever post to you sticks let it be this.

None of us can control another persons choices!

nothing I can or will do other than to take care of me and my children

Taking care of your children is YOUR responsibility but I know you know this so no need to b*tch about it. Right?

Wow nothing you can or will do….huh…..Boy that sounds pretty attractive. I am sure most women would jump at the thought of being with someone who cant doing anything.

So…you can never find true love again (that may even be with your W in the future).

You can never take a trip to your favorite vacation spot

You can never change jobs, change your clothing style, change music interest, change anything. No…based on your post you can’t. Bobby wants the old M, Bobby wants his life back just the way it was because it was fine with Bobby. Guess what Bobby – your wife is in a crisis and SHE does not want the old life back. Hell, with all of your “cant do nothing” talk I wouldn’t want it.

Okay, here is the good news…YOU Bobby can change all of this. You Bobby can GET YOUR W back. That’s right I said it. You could. I did not say YOU would…only COULD. Bet your excited now….

So how do you do it? Okay I will tell you in a sec…let me finish your post.

I need to clear my head.

Hey while your clear your head…can you throw some positive mentals thoughts in there….figured since you were clearing your head.

I doubt my wife will ever come back to the marriage again.

I remember a guy by the name of Drew who no longer post (or has not posted to me in a while) saying this to me when I was were you are right now Bobby. Drew said… can I tell him what tomorrows lotto numbers are.

I was confused…what the hell is the guy asking about lotto number for? Who the hell was this guy? I’ll make it easier on you and give you the answer….

Bobby – you do not have a crystal ball. Nope…you do not. So STOP doubting if your W is coming back. Stop projecting your fear, stop writing your future with out your W. Just stop it.

I know if she leaves it is for good and I need to move on.

I know Bobby you are right. You know her better than I do. You know her better than anyone. So who am I to argue?

One question though…..since you knew her better than anyone else. Why didn’t you see this coming?

Oh…I know why…she is in a mid life crisis and has totally lost her fu*king mind, so yeah…she should continue to act like the level headed, kind, etc. woman that you knew and loved for X number of years. Sorry to say dude..you have no iead of what she will and can do. She may fool you and come back – she may not.

I dont know what it feels like to be happy

Ohhhh yeah…now you are getting somewhere. So YOU don’t know what it feels like to be happy? I wonder if that bothered your W. If so, what have you done about it?

I feel I have done all I can to save this marriage

Maybe you did – maybe you did not. I sure as hell don’t know – only God does. Maybe you don’t save your M but maybe you save yourself.

Oh…and about the actions point I made early in this post…

Actions Bobby is what your W will see and remember.
Actions Bobby take time
Actions can breed consistency

Actions speak louder than words……What actions are you tell her right now Bobby? Oh…and I am not talking about faking happiness around her…you tell me Bobby what are your actions telling YOU.

I have to be strong and realize this is my fate

Can I get those lotto numbers…dude I really need the money trust me. FTR it is MY fate that I am to win powerball. My fate.. Oh…wait a minute….

Do I know what my fate is? No I do not and I bet Bobby your really do not know what your fate is.

Bobby – don’t do anything rash or crazy. You may not realize this but NOW is YOUR TIME.

Now get back to the work of trying to be the man that you always wanted to be so that you can win your W back.

God Bless,
Eric