I've been following your thread but haven't posted for awhile. I agree with CW that OW sounds very threatened by you. Reading what your H e-mailed you after he'd had a drink or two made me wonder what kinds of things he is saying to OW when he drinks. Alcohol has a way of lowering those inhibitions and loosening the tongue. Things can't be that rosy between them if she is contacting you. Her acting out in this situation will only serve to sharpen the contrast between you and OW. Let him miss you...........and be good to yourself. I would imagine that this interaction has stirred up some raw emotions. What are you going to do self-soothe?
