There is some amazing advice on this thread, I just read it start to finish and the progress you have made is admirable. I love the squirrel stuff, now when I see H he will morph into this grey-fluffy thing, might make it easier to see him. Keep up all the great work you are doing on yourself.
Dagny
Me 48, H49, M24, S14, S11 DB #1 4/2002-8/2003 Bomb #2 August 2010 & he moved out Living with OW