If you give us cheaters an inch we will usually take a mile. Let him communicate via email, then he will convience himself it's ok to talk to her in person, then it will lead to a little lunch, a little kiss,....then you know. Trust me I did this. I wish I would have maned up and put bounderies on myself. I didn't W didn't or didn't know how it cost me dearly and is it still costing me. You have to draw that line in the sand because he will not.
me 36 W 33 s-6 s-4 together since 1991 married Dec 2000 9years first affair before we where married. Second affair 1/2007 Gone Nov,2007 Back June 2008. ILYBNILY---i cannot believe you did this 7/22/2010