INTERESTED IN MLC FOR LBS

[Truegritter]

I know if she leaves it is for good and I need to move on.

Bobby it is my opinion that it is never our place to take hope away from anyone.

But I will tell you why I am here and why I continue to be here.

It is to help people see hope that they cannot see because of the pain they feel.

This thing we all have in common is the most horrible thing to happen to anyone.

It is.

And.

I can not afford to become deeply depressed at the expence of my work or family members that count on me.

I understand this.

And

I have felt this way. And so has everyone here.

But

You control this too. You can take yourself out of the turmoil of emotion you find yourself in.

Detaching from this is key. It will give you clarity.

It will help you not to be invested in the outcome.

That is whether your M can be saved.

It may not be apparent to you but there is more at stake than your M.

You think (as we all come here thinking)that your M is what you are invested in and if you can't have that or you are denied that by someone then it is lost.

There is an opportunity here.

Albeit a difficult one.

Not to accept being a statistic.

Not to accept that you will be the average Joe who gets divorced like 50% of us do.

When do you think this decision to divorce happens?

Right now when someone is not reciprocating your desires.

YOU write your own destiny.

You decide who you are and what you believe in.

Will you accept the average decision?

Will you set your sights on mediocrity?

Will you run from your W because she doesn't want you right now?

Because you feel betrayed? Thrown away?

Will you confirm that in yourself and

This is a big one...

Will you confirm to your W that your love is contingent.

Contingent on whatever condition you place on it?

THAT is what she is looking for.

THAT is what she seeks. Someone who will love her

No matter what.

Your choice what to do here my friend.

I cannot guarantee you your M will be saved.

I can guarnatee you that you will understand things that you never knew possible.

It is this

It is time to save me and move forward.

That I speak of.