INTERESTED IN MLC FOR LBS

[Albuquerque]

Bobby,

I know the hurt, frustration, confusion, defeat you feel right now. But you need to hold your head up high. You seem to have a defeat-est attitude and that's not healthy. No one knows what the future of your marriage holds. Take the time to read some threads. Many on here have gone through a lot worse in their marriage and then ended up with stronger marriages in the end. But it wasn't without some significant pain, tears and above all, TIME.
It sounds like you are prepared to give up on your marriage. Is that really what YOU want? If so, then so be it. But be sure that it is. If not, take this time to learn and grown and NOT think about your marriage right now. You keep talking about doing what you can to save your marriage. That is NOT your job right now. Your job is to save YOURSELF. When and if your wife is ready, your marriage may follow. But concentrate on YOU now.