Thank you to all who have posted comments to me. My wife is moving next week and there is nothing I can or will do other than to take care of me and my children. I am planning on going away the week after next for a few days. I need to clear my head. I still can not believe this is happening and I doubt my wife will ever come back to the marriage again. I know if she leaves it is for good and I need to move on. I have been through so many emotions that I dont know what it feels like to be happy. I feel I have done all I can to save this marriage. It is time to save me and move forward. I can not afford to become deeply depressed at the expence of my work or family members that count on me. I have to be strong and realize this is my fate. It is sad to have been with someone more than half your life and end up like this. Time will tell what the future holds but it is not the way I would have wanted this to end. Bobby O
