CD – H being home has been OK. He has shown more affection since coming home last night than in awhile! Don’t worry: not taking that as a huge sign and abandoning previous position… just making mental note. Nothing great or over the top – no “I love you” or big, sloppy kiss. Got a warm hug and a few quick kisses and a thank you for fixing dinner, and an affectionate touch of my hair - which are all more than I’d gotten before. So, I’m cautiously optimistic that there’s improvement in H’s mindset.
I’m remembering my ultimate goal though – which also is helpful for you: THEY are not good enough for us if they can’t improve over what they were BC (Before Crisis) as we have!
I’ll address your current state in a separate post…
