Originally Posted By: didthehurt
Tay
to do everything you can do also means letting him go. He will hit rock bottom. I know cause I was that guy. Did he have anyother problems porn, alcohol, drugs...etc?


I agree with you wholeheartedly didthehurt. That is why I decided that I was going to let him go. For the six months that he has been gone I have given him food, money for gas, and anything he needed. I have finally come to the fact of I have to let go. I have done everything wrong for six months. Now I am going to do things the right way by letting go. I am not sure if it was an addiction but he did always talk to women online. They were always women that lived in other states and I never really paid attention to it because they lived in other states. I know that he is going to hit rock bottom and I was trying to save him from that but I see that I can't.


Me (32) H (36)
Together (12 years)
Married (3 years)
Children (4 ages 11,9,7,6)
Bomb dropped (November 09)
Seperated (January 29, 2010)