How are we supposed to communicate/validate/be attractive if we don't open our mouths? Or by the "you" here did you mean the things john specifically has been saying?
I understand initiating stuff about R is pursuing, but my understanding of DR is that when we communicate most of it is supposed to be about WAS's feelings, events in day, etc (as opposed to our own)
Me-53 W-49 D22,D18,D15 T-Since-12/2001 Married-9/2004 She Moved Out-5/28/2010 Piecing start-04/2011 Now-together Thread http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2079304
