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I asked her how her day went,


Pursuing.

What does John want?

And don't answer "My wife back" because you see how she doesn't love you right now.

John is going through seperation anxiety because he wants his wife to love him, but she doesn't. You can tell by her actions.


John, you need to start doing things for John. Any little thing you do to improve your life and the quality of the time you spend with your kids is a step forward.

After enough steps forward, you might still want a woman who loves you, but you will accept your wife's feelings as they are instead of pursuing her, trying to convince her to somehow love you.

If she wants to love you, she will approach you, but right now you are chasing her, and you haven't let go, and she can't say hello without you chasing her and such. Let her feel what she feels. Give her enough space to think about something aside from escaping you.


M-47,W-40,No kids
D-filed 5/27/2010
Piecing - 10/21/2010
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