Mila, I say protect yourself financially, however you need to do it. Over the past year, I have read many sitches on here that end up in financial ruin while "standing" for their marriage. I never wanted a divorce, but I sure as he#l wasn't going to sit around and watch him and his little OW cheat me out of what was rightfully mine. I filed 1 1/2 months after finding out about the affair and I have never regretted it. I've been divorced 3 months and can honestly say I've never been happier. I thought many, many times about the possibility of remarriage, but I don't think so at this point in my life.
Please, protect yourself.
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10
