My wife and I were up early in bed; neither of us could sleep well. She said she's so afraid of letting me down (by not falling back in love); that she doesn't know how to rekindle the romance. She said that I've changed so much, that now I'm "alive," that I'm such a different person than two months ago.
She also said that she's afraid we'll both find a way back to our old habits/patterns. I think that without the spark of romance returning, that's the least of our worries.
Other than being a cat whisperer, and recognizing her LLs, does anyone have any tips?